Here's a little fantasy of mine...(Part 1)

If you're here, you may know what's CBT and nipple play, but I'll explain anyway. In our current society, vanilla sex considers CBT and nipple play (on guys) 'gay' or 'ah gua'. After all, no one likes pain, right? But most vanilla guys I've met are apes when it comes to pleasing their girlfriends. (If thrusting and sucking on breasts is all it takes for a lady to cum, then we wouldn't have so many vibes about, amiright?) When your girl feels like taking the top, there are a few ways to make them wet for foreplay. Squirming about and begging for them to take you (submissive-role dirty talk) could help them be more confident about taking the top position. Of course, not all girls like their man to be, well, less of a man, so do gauge their responses before playing out a really submissive role.

CBT stands for Cock and Ball Torture. It is exactly what is says. There are different means to induce pain on a man's testicles, but not all of them safe or sane. The most common ones are impact and pressure. For impact, it can be delivered by slapping, (light) punching, flicking (two fingers, think the action you do when you flick ants off the table). Pressure is more simple, but a little more dangerous. For manual, just squeeze the life out of your man's balls. There are other, more specialised equipment you can use too such as this one.

Ways to torture the penis, however, are limited by your imagination. Tons of methods rely on the oh-so-sensitive-head as the basis of torture, such as hot wax (please ONLY use BDSM wax, as other candles run hotter and can cause permanent damage), hitting with a paddle, post orgasm torture and use of clothes pegs.

This is my little fantasy, set in a vanilla relationship.

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Coming home from work, I set down my bags and proceeded to take a shower. My girlfriend said that she would drop by later in the evening. "If you clean yourself up I might stay a little longer", she texted me. I made sure to scrub every part of me saw the light of day. The parts that didn't needed a little more help. I rolled back my foreskin and reeled back from the sudden sensation caused by the warm water droplets hitting my glans. The naughty turtle head stirred from its slumber, but not yet fully comprehending the situation. He welcomed the slippery hand that smelt of lavender that caressed its head and body, making it nice and fresh again. Meanwhile it's owner was starting to pant, struggling to wash off the soap. The little turtle became an angry dragon as it could not get what it wanted. And it wanted it immediately. A splash of sudden cold water killed the dragon, but he vowed to return soon. I trimmed the dragon's mane, just in case she plans on staying longer than usual. I dried myself up and called for takeout as I waited for my girlfriend to arrive.

Ding-dong, went the doorbell. I answered the door and greeted her with a forehead kiss.
   "Dinner will be here soon", I said.
   "Not fast food right? I don't wanna eat fast food", said she.
   "Don't worry, I ordered Zi Char, got your favourite curry chicken rice"
   "Really ah? Good boy! Come here, let me reward you"
She kissed me on the lips, and grabbed my sack, lightly squeezing and rolling it about in her tiny palms.
   "You're expecting it right? After I texted you..."
I hugged her and kissed her back, cuddling her, one hand on the small of her back, the other cupping her cheek.
   "Yeah, but dinner is arriving soon..."
She then tightened her grip around my little fishballs, but only for a split-second. The shock was enough for me to jump back and break the kiss.
   "We'll have a little more of that after dinner", she said, her voice trailing off.

There was not much 'action' during dinner, mainly talking about work, then into sweet nothings, as we cuddled and watched the news together.

   "Hey, you in the mood now?" she asked.
I nodded and whisper in her ear "yea", gently nibbling on it as I passed it by. She gave a short, soft exclamation, then pushed me away.
   "Wait here, let me get something first." That, she said with a cheeky little grin.
The last time she said that, it resulted in a sheer, pale pink babydoll, with a matching open crotch t-string. I was expecting something similar today. Instead, she came back with something that looked like it came out of a D&T workshop.
   "What is that?", I asked, wary of it. It was made out of rubber or silicone, and looked like two rings attached. Either way, it didn't look like a female sex toy.
   "This," she said with a big grin, "will make this feel a lot more intense. For you."
I took the product and examined it. The logo was "oxballs".
   "This will keep your balls in place and maintain your erection even after you cum! I expect you to last throughout the night with this! You'll had to get it on by yourself, because even the hint of my breath will make you stand at attention, hehe".

~To be continued~